why do you agree to buy her stuff? just because she has asked? i know you're worried that she might get mad or something. but her love shouldn't be conditional to the amount you spend on her. if it is, then it means that she doesn't truly love you

have you discussed this with her?

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Shimmer Shimmer... There's my Lola...
All it takes is a glimpse, pretty glimpse...
And I shiver shiver...
Yeah... Right there where you want to go....
I'm all Tempted To Lola...

You should talk to her. May be not directly but tell her that you are facing financial problems and see whether she still tells you to buy things for her.

That’s not good to ask your boyfriend to buy things for you every now and then. Does your girlfriend work too?

Has your wedding been fixed? I’m afraid that she’s cheating you and using you only to satisfy her needs. Find out whether she is serious regarding your relationship.

No I have never discussed it with her. I won’t be able to and I can’t even refuse her when she asks me to buy something. Yesterday, she told me to buy herself a dress since she has to attend her friend’s birthday. I just couldn’t refuse her because I love her. I want to give her all happiness in the world but I don’t know how long I’ll be able to continue with this.idon’t want her to leave me. What do I do?

it's time to face the fact that you have a problem and loving her and wanting to give her all the happiness in the world is sometimes just not enough.

either you'll keep on buying her stuff and one day end up absolutely broke, with the possibility of giving her nothing, absolutely nothing more.

OR, you can talk to her tenderly, tell her your problem but tell her that if you budget correctly, you will still be able to give her gifts every now and then.

if you tell her this, with all the tenderness in the love, and she still packs her bags and leaves... you know what that means right?

it means that there's your soulmate is still waiting for you somewhere else.

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Shimmer Shimmer... There's my Lola...
All it takes is a glimpse, pretty glimpse...
And I shiver shiver...
Yeah... Right there where you want to go....
I'm all Tempted To Lola...

sometimes love has funny ways...

have you spoken to her yet?

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i hope he has and that everything went fine for him

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Shimmer Shimmer... There's my Lola...
All it takes is a glimpse, pretty glimpse...
And I shiver shiver...
Yeah... Right there where you want to go....
I'm all Tempted To Lola...

Hi, I think that your girlfriend don’t love you and she is just using you to get all that she wants, you are here just to do all her expenses. Hey guy, stop now you should be realistic because a girlfriend can’t ask you to buy whatever she wants whenever she wants like this. And, if one day she sees a beautiful car and tell you to buy it for her, will you be able to afford it? Even me I don’t ask my husband to buy me anything now and then.

what is everyone on this board up to, ive been busy all day i have school in the mornings...

but i just wanted to say what i have to say nice meeting everyone