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Old 04-09-2007, 08:22 PM
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How long have you guys been talking?
Does he make you feel comfortable?
Have you spoken on the phone?

There is no harm in meeting someone as long as you are sure before of a few things. If you do decide to meet, make sure it's in a public place, and try to get there using public transportation, that way he can't run your plates! Don't get into a car with him, no matter what he says.

A good place to meet is a mall, that way you always have an exit nearby, and there are tons of people around. I would also recommed doing it during the day, and not late at night.

Good Luck no matter what you do!
taking all these precautions means that you just don't know the person. it's not a good thing meeting someone like that, he might be a psycho or something. lol, just don't take the risk. it's not worth it. unless you've started developing certain feelings for the person in question
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Old 04-10-2007, 07:53 AM
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Silent Death is right. So Seniorita dear, do you have some feelings for him? I mean do you think that you have fallen in love with this person whom you’ve never met but only seen.
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Old 04-10-2007, 05:31 PM
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Silent Death is right. So Seniorita dear, do you have some feelings for him? I mean do you think that you have fallen in love with this person whom you’ve never met but only seen.
seen? if she hasn't met him, how can she see him? did he sent her his picture or something?

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taking all these precautions means that you just don't know the person. it's not a good thing meeting someone like that, he might be a psycho or something. lol, just don't take the risk. it's not worth it. unless you've started developing certain feelings for the person in question
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seen? if she hasn't met him, how can she see him? did he sent her his picture or something?



Yes she did mention in the thread that they have even exchanged photographs online. Well according to what I have understood.
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Old 04-11-2007, 05:26 AM
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do a backround check on him first, google his names, nicknames, email addresses or anything he tells you about himself and make sure its true. Also a webcam is a good idea, i wouldnt meet anyone unless i knew what they looked like, he could be 50 yr old pedo for all you know.

If you do meet him tough make sure its in a public place like a restuarant and get their early to see if you like him or not, if not and you see him you can just leave without him knowing you were there. :)

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Old 04-11-2007, 03:19 PM
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Yes she did mention in the thread that they have even exchanged photographs online. Well according to what I have understood.
i understood that only she had sent him a picture

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and even sent him my photograph on his request
what if nothing comes up about him on google?
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Old 04-11-2007, 04:42 PM
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I am online most of the time and I “meet” many people. But there is one guy who I met online and exchanged messages and even sent him my photograph on his request. He now wants to meet me. Should I say yes? Would you advise me meeting up with someone I’ve met on the internet? Please help.
i've never understood these virtual get-together relationships
so i don't think i'm the best person to give advice on this one. but i just don't find it logical to meet a person you don't know a single bit and who has unknown intentions towards you
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Old 04-13-2007, 06:07 AM
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I just got an idea. What if you agree to meet him but you go there in disguise so that he can’t recognize you. Thus you will be in a better position to observe his behaviour. But the sad fact is that he will obviously behave like a good person because he will know that he is expecting you.
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I just got an idea. What if you agree to meet him but you go there in disguise so that he can’t recognize you. Thus you will be in a better position to observe his behaviour. But the sad fact is that he will obviously behave like a good person because he will know that he is expecting you.
well, too bad for the idea
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Old 04-16-2007, 07:21 AM
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I just got an idea. What if you agree to meet him but you go there in disguise so that he can’t recognize you. Thus you will be in a better position to observe his behaviour. But the sad fact is that he will obviously behave like a good person because he will know that he is expecting you.
That’s indeed a very bad idea.
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