That’s a very tragic story… I really don’t know what I would do if I lost my boyfriend!! That should be very difficult. But your friend mustn’t feel guilty of the death of her boyfriend. I think it’s the destiny that choose when you are going to die and how…you can’t do anything against it, it’s not easy to admit it but she will have and she will need a lot of courage for that!! Maybe you should spend most time that you can with your friend and to be with her.

That is such a sad story!!!.your friend must be so devastated, but unfortunately this is the way that life works and she needs to remember that life is very short and that we all have to die someday. All I can suggest is that you remain close to your friend and give her all the support that she needs. just keep reminding her that “yes her boyfriend is dead but she is not” and that she needs to live her life without regrets, its what her boyfriend would want her to do instead of sitting and eating all the day.!

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Be Friend

This is a very drastic story dear.I guess the pain of your friend.But she has to stand on her feet and look forward.I know it's impossible to forget what happen but she has to be courageous and brave.By overeating and sleeping she'll surely put on not only weight but will pave ways for diseases.I guess you need be by her side and support her alot.

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Kinto Kinto Kinto

Well all this is really sad!
I wonder why life is so painful. It is easy to console her but only she knows what she is going through. It is indeed very painful when you lose someone who is so dear to you. I think that she tries to comfort herself by eating… I mean maybe she feels better when she is eating. I am not sure but I will suggest that you take her out with you and she may feel better and eat less if she is outside.

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Koolgirl

Life is not always a bed of roses dear.nell friend is surely going through a hard time but there is nothing much that we can do untill she herself wants our help.

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F.............Y

I'm so sorry for your friend dear,i imagine that this accident was the biggest shocked of her life.I'm very sad that she has get refuge in eating.As you told us she is taking weight,i guess it is hight time that you try the neccesary measures to stop her harming herself.Try to talk to her and if this still don't work then i guess the best would be to take her to the doctor.

Life is very complicated. Why do we meet people when we have to part one day?
I know it is very difficult but you need to cheer her up and as Sweetoo said consult a doctor and seek his advices.

This is what we s ay life dear.It is made up of good things as well as bad things.What we have to do is to keep moving and try to forget our bad past.

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Kinto Kinto Kinto

You are right dear. We get and lose many things in life. Life is like that and we have no control over these things. But whatever hjappens we have to continue to live.

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Sharon