Weight Loss - I want to loose weight but my hubby loves me just the way i am. What should I do

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01-08-2007, 07:01 AM

carmen

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Originally Posted by pikachoo

I think that maybe you misunderstood your partner's words when he said that he loves you the way you are. I think he meant that he does not want you to change even if you lose weight to be the same person he loves. He is probably scared that this weight loss thing might stress you out too much and I think that he will be happy if you lose weight and at the same time remains the same person.

I guess he is right,you better clear up things with him before you mistake his intention. More over i guess you need target a weight that good be heathy for you and at the same time make you feel at ease.

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02-06-2007, 10:14 AM

Sharon8

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You should tell your hubby what health complications might arise in the future if you do not control your weight now. I’m sure he is going to understand.

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02-07-2007, 04:16 AM

Koolgirl

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The best thing to do in this case is communication. Tell him what you want and ask him what and why he wants. I am sure the problem can be solved by talking to each other. What do you think?

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08-13-2007, 01:58 AM

madie0428

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I have the same problem and i always tell him im not happy with it. When i finally told him that the reason i dont enjoy sex as much anymore is because i dont feel sexy and i feel fat he realized there was a problem he needed to understand me and support. I actually look at my body during intimacy and i hate how it looks so there goes the whole idea.

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